What is an anal hook? A beginners guide to anal hooks

If you are into anal play with a dash of BDSM predicament play, then have I got the toy for you. Anal hooks can be used by anyone, no matter their gender or anatomy, and are popular tools for BDSM and fetish play. However, a word of warning, anal hooks are not for the faint-hearted and require open communication, a safe word and plenty of check-ins during play to ensure safe and enjoyable anal hook sex. Here's our anal hook 101 guide.

What is an anal hook?

An anal hook is a metal hook that looks similar to a fish hook, with one long end and one shorter end. The longer end will usually have a loop, and the shorter one may have one or more metal balls for stimulation. The shorter end of the hook is inserted into the anus while the longer sits outside the body.

This is a popular tool for BDSM play where there is a submissive and a dominant partner and goes very well with shibari, a form of bondage rope tying that originated in Japan. As you might guess, the anal hook will be used on the submissive with the loop at the back attached to a rope or other piece of restraint wear to keep them in place. This rope can also be attached to an overhead fixture to keep them in place. It may also be used to attach the wrists at the base of the back or even to a collar.

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Anal hooks are one of the few sex toys where there is not all that much variation in size between different models. They will usually be about 1 inch thick with an insertable length of 6 inches or less. Some will include metal balls for stimulation on entry and removal of the hook. Others will have a simple rounded end and maintain a similar size throughout the length of the insertable end.

Some anal hooks will come with different-sized ball attachments so that you can decide which size to play with on a given day. Just make sure you screw these on super tight before you start so that the balls do not separate from the hook while they are inside you. If you are playing with a partner, ensure this is checked and discussed beforehand so you both feel safe and comfortable with the set-up.

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What does an anal hook do?

Anal hooks are commonly used in a form of BDSM play called predicament play, where the wearer is forced to stay in a particular position. As in, “Oh no. I’m in such a predicament. How will I ever get off this hook?”

Once attached to other pieces of BDSM gear, the hook should keep the person in place with very little movement in a hog-tied position. Often, the Dom will stimulate the Sub while they wear the hook. They may pleasure them or tease them in this position. The hook should be attached firmly in place, restricting movement for the wearer. Depending on how you play, this may become uncomfortable over time, but it shouldn’t be painful. If you experience pain, loosen the rope or restraints straight away to prevent any damage to the anus.

Can I use an anal hook as a dildo?

But these tools can be extremely pleasurable too, and are often used similarly to a metal dildo. Anal hooks are generally made of steel that is firm and inflexible, which is great for an internal massage. Some people will use the hook vaginally too, as a dildo for the firm pressure it applies to the body. The hook can be inserted and moved slowly around using the external loop as a handle. This is extremely effective as an anal sex toy if you have a prostate, as the ball can directly massage this area of high stimulation for amazing orgasms.

How to use an anal hook?

The basics of using an anal hook are much the same as using a butt plug or anal dildo, with a few extra things you need to consider. As it’s an anal toy, you are going to need to use adequate lube that won’t dry out during your play session. As anal hooks are made from stainless steel, they can be teamed up with any kind of lubricant. So, you can use a water-based lubricant or go for something a bit thicker and longer-lasting like silicone lubricant.

Using a lubricant will allow the hook to glide in smoothly and look after the delicate skin in this area, even if there is some movement with the hook. It’s important that the lube is long-lasting enough to assist with removal when you are finished too.

How to insert an anal hook?

Once it's lubed up, the hooked end can be slowly inserted in the anus with the longer end resting flat against the wearer's back. Ensure it is comfortable before adding any rope or further restraints.

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The more difficult part is knowing how to attach the anal hook to a rope, restraints or overhead fixture. Make sure whoever you are playing with is aware of the dangers of this type of play. Remember that the addition of rope or other gear is only there to ensure that the hook does not move. It is not meant to add any extra pressure.

Ensure that your partner has experience with rope tying before securing an anal hook in place, and keep scissors handy in case you need a quick release.

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How to use an anal hook safely

Always lay out how you intend to play before you start to establish any limits, preferences and restrictions. And don’t forget a safe word so that you can end play and loosen the anal hook if you need to.
Never use an anal hook with anyone that you are not completely comfortable with. You need to be confident enough to use a safe word or say if you want to stop during play too. And feel confident that they will listen to you if you do need to stop at any point.
Anal hooks should not be used for anal hook suspension bondage. You should also avoid any sudden movements or jerking while you wear an anal hook. Both of these can seriously injure the wearer.
So long as you follow these simple rules, playing with an anal hook can be an extremely erotic experience. Just make sure you feel comfortable with your partner and have a safe word ready so you can get out quickly if you need to.

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