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Bondage collars have an array of meanings within BDSM, each representing different aspects of a D/s relationship. . Expand article.

To the vanilla world of sex, BDSM collars are seen as one-dimensional toys that are worn to spice things up during intercourse. However, they have greater significance and meanings in the world of BDSM, specifically dominant submissive relationships (D/s).

Through bondage collars we can understand that D/s relationships are similar to any relationship, differing greatly in terms of comfortability, expression and experience. Firstly, it's important to understand that collars are worn by the submissive within a D/s relationship. The collar itself doesn't have to be a stereotypical neck collar and can instead be a bracelet, anklet, necklace or lock pendant.

*The collars shown in this article are not necessarily the usual or typical collars BDSM practitioners may use, however they can be used if anyone so desired. *

6 Different types of bondage collars

Each bondage collar connotes a different stage of a D/s relationships.

1. Collars of consideration

Collars of consideration are worn by the submissive during new relationships. The meaning behind a consideration collar is in the name, the D/s relationships in under consideration, does the submissive want to continue with this dominant and vice versa. The collar will be offered by the dominant to show their interest in pursuing or furthering an already existing relationship. Therefore, the two partners may have already been involved on a more casual basis or have only ever been a top/bottom. If the relationship is successful, then the collar can be upgraded to a permanent collar that suggest greater ownership. New relationships are fragile, so outside dominants or submissives display their respect for this collar by acknowledging its presence and therefore it's meaning. For an external dominant to approach an already collared submissive would be a sign of misconduct within the BDSM community. Such an approach would be deemed dishonourable and can greatly impact the reputation of the concerning dominant. Upgrading the collar represents an increased level of trust with the partners involved.

2. Training collars

Again, this is pretty self-explanatory. This collar is worn whilst a dominant is training a submissive and is usually made from leather. The training collar represents. the next step after a collar of consideration, however many D/s relationships prefer to skip straight to training collars as they feel an adequate level of trust has already been established within the relationship. This would have been established through extensive discussion around characteristics, traits, desires and even lifestyles to see if the relationship is viable to be taken further. A training collar represents a time in the relationship where mental and physical limits are about to be tested and some desires explored. Emotional, physical and mental limits will be tested to deepen the emotional connection within the relationship and also to discover the limitations of each partner. This phase obviously requires a lot of communication to ensure that both users are kept safe and so that no desires are ever abused.

3. Protection collars

Collars generally represent ownership within the BDSM community. A protection collar is exactly that, a collar that can tell other single dominants that this submissive is off limits. This can be to touch, talk to or approach in any sort of way. The protection collar is introduced in well developed D/s relationships, therefore the surrounding BDSM community is aware and respecting of its existence. Protection collars are usually worn within a dungeon or a kinky house party and are typically a leather or dog collar.

4. Day collars

Day collars are useful for those who want to be wearing something symbolic of their relationship at all time or when amongst the general public. Therefore, this is often a piece that is unnoticeable within the public, or if it is noticed it's likely to receive compliments. Therefore a day collar may be jewellery in the form of a necklace, bracelet or anklet.

5. Play collars

Play collars are simply worn during play, or a kink scene. They are the easiest to obtain and don't necessarily represent any sort of D/s relationship is in existence. These can be gifted by a dominant or bought by the submissive itself. It can be worn to foreshadow the scene that is about to take place and allows a submissive to prepare themselves.

6. Slave collars/permanent collars

A permanent collar or slave collar represents the ultimate level a D/s relationships can reach. The offering of a slave collar has been likened to taking someone's hand in marriage. Upgrading the relationship to one of lifetime devotion, therefore it's important to understand the difference between a slave collar and an ordinary day collar. This is better explained below!

Sometimes these collars may be lockable, where the dominant only has access to the key. Removing the collar may mean the end of a relationship, taking a break from BDSM play or just for general comfort.

Important things to remembers

Never assume a member of the public is part of the BDSM community because of something they are wearing. We can think of the trend of wearing chokers made out of soft fabric or any jewellery. BDSM-esque fashion is worn by many simply out of taste and may have nothing to do with erotic desire.

Different relationships may have differing meanings, interests and levels of investments within collars. However, it's important to understand general concepts surrounding collars to not offend anyone else.

Before the use of any bondage collar, ensure that prior discussion has taken place and that both participants are well aware of its meaning or lack of.

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Rope play is an underrated concept in the world of bondage. Here's 5 reasons why anyone should consider bringing some raunchy rope into the bedroom!. Expand article.

Using rope during sex is avery broad concept. It could refer to mimicking a basic wrist restraint, to an elaborate hogtie. The variation that binding rope encourages is what makes bondage rope such an attractive option. Alternatively, some prefer to stick to toys that satisfy one certain binding or purpose. No matter where you sit on the kink spectrum, bondage rope is a great option for beginners or aficionados and here's 5 reasons why!

1. Learning the ropes!

Before bringing rope into the bedroom, it’s important to acknowledge that it might not immediately satisfy the amazing, raunchy, kinky experience you envisioned. It can be though! This is perhaps one negative about using rope, if your first few experiences aren't the best you understandably might coil the rope at the bottom of your closet to never be seen again.

Remember that rope bondage is a skill that has to be learned! To incorporate it into sex fluently will take a bit of practice, but pleasurable practice! Consider that you have to learn how to bind someone safely and securely, different bindings and binding combinations can used with different body parts and positions. If there's one technique that feels especially good to both partners, invest more time into mastering that one before exploring alternatives.

Once you've become the raunchy rigger you or your submissive desired, you'll experience pleasure and scenarios you’ve never imagine. If a submissive knows that they can trust you with complex combinations that can be navigated with ease, their pleasure will be taken to new heights! Alternatively, if someone prefers their bondage rope experience to turn them into an erotic art piece, they can rest assured the bindings are making them look more sexy than ever!

2. Erotic Art

For some, the biggest attraction about rope is the aesthetic it can enable. This can take precedence over sexual pleasure, hence why there are many festivals around the world that focus on the art form. This is what makes the experience so pleasurable, mental release achieved through artistry! It can of course be sexual, an orgasm amongst a network of bindings can be the cherry on top of a session.

3. Cost Effective

Bondage rope is super affordable. Especially for beginners, a small length will allow you to experience lots without breaking the bank! Rope gradually becomes more expensive depending on material and length. Material usually becomes firmer with greater expense, aficionados use rope strong enough to suspend their submissives from the ceiling!

The other way bondage rope is cost efficient is because it can do everything that other bondage pieces do and more. This is dependant on how skilled you are and the diversity of bindings you have learnt. This is another reason why rope is a great option, why would you spend more on wrist restraints, ankle restraints or hogties when they can all be mimicked with a rope! This leaves you with a bit of extra cash to accompany your rope bindings, such as a blindfold, collar or a pair of nipple clamps.

4. Communication and Intensity

Rope bondage can create an extremely intimate experience. If you’re a dominant, you will be spending perhaps more time than you ever have admiring your partner's body. As a submissive, you may feel ultra-aware of your partners movements, this can add to the stimulation of the rope and be comforting before surrendering yourself to be bound. Especially for beginners a lot of communication is involved, the openness between partners encourages feelings of safety and confidence in one another.

Communication around each others limitations, aesthetics and desires with rope play can inspire the comfortability to share other fantasies you never thought you’d share. This can lead to the most sexually satisfying or emotionally connected relationship in your lifetime!

5. Sexual Freedom

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Considering the partner that is bound will have limited movement during a session, freedom may have been the last thing you expected to associate with rope bondage. For submissive's the desire for rope play births from how free it makes them feel mentally. Letting someone manipulate your body with graceful movements, at a varying speed helps someone relax. For some submissives, the unique mental space they find themselves in has allowed them to be able to orgasm. Whereas normal vanilla sex could never do the trick. Another aspect is simply just playing the role of the submissive. For some, serving their partner and making them happy is their favourite part of rope bondage.

There are plenty reasons to introduce rope into the bedroom, just remember that to achieve satisfaction or even identify what you like best, it may take a bit of practice!

Important things to remember!

Only take part in bondage play in someone you have trust in. Being able to communicate when things are uncomfortable or need to stop is essential in ensuring safety and an enjoyable experience.

Remember to identify a safe word before participating in any bondage play. Sometimes people like to establish multiple words to express different levels of discomfort. Like a bondage version of hot and cold!

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If a bit of light bondage is a bit of you. Then you'll love light bondage wear, here's 5 of our favourite pieces! . Expand article.

You've discovered you enjoy hair pulling, choking, spanking maybe even aggressive language within the heat of passion.Yet you're pretty certain your desires don't involve a BDSM dungeon. The first step to a new sexual experience with new sensations is acknowledging that you are a little bit kinky. Nothing to be ashamed of, the overwhelming majority of people are! At the moment you're either a beginner or you've established your BDSM limitations as the odd restraint, spanker or submissive position. Whether you’re a newbie or prefer to remain at entry level there is another category of beginner bondage play that many people overlook. Light bondage wear!

Light bondage wear usually involves incorporating familiar restraints with your favourite pieces of lingerie, or vice versa. Playing with actions or sensations you are already familiar with but putting a BDSM spin on things. The game changer that light bondage wear connotes is visual arousal. Your partner restrained in lingerie or a specific BDSM harness makes them seem more vulnerable than ever.

"But I prefer my partner in their birthday suit!" Absolutely, however introducing a restraint while clothing is on encourages foreplay, which is a vital part of BDSM. Light bondage is not at the level where one person is the dominant and the other the submissive. It's simply a small addition to pleasurable vanilla sex, where things can often be a bit more one sided. Letting whoever is donning the clothing lay back and relax, feeling comfortable in erotic restraint and confident as arousing art. That partner is forced to submit into receiving sensation and feel completely self indulgent.

The longer spent on foreplay the more intimate the entire experience becomes. Light bondage wear allows you to build the tension to the max, slowly slipping off lingerie. Focusing on erogenous areas that aren't the usual. This might mean spending a bit more time kissing or touching their lips, neck or nipples. Men especially are conditioned to focused on genital pleasure. Light BDSM helps break such conditioning and can help couples realise that better genital pleasure can actually be achieved indirectly.

5 Light Bondage Pieces

Here are 5 pieces that mix pleasurable restriction with visual arousal!

The Baci Lace Love Slave Set is the perfect example of light bondage wear. Like your favourite piece of lingerie mixed with a bondage playground. Featuring a lace collar, bra, panties and cuffs all interconnected with chains. Your partner becomes encompassed in bondage beauty and all it’s bindings.

For any BDSM beginners, one piece that should never be overlooked is the blindfold. This Negligee Eyemask & Cuff Set is recommended because of it's blindfold. Further the cuffs in this set have straps attached that can be used in various ways. This could mean binding your arms or hands in various ways or tieing to a piece of furniture.

Blocking out ones vision may seem really simple, but the difference it makes is underrated. When it comes to helping your partner relax and enjoy receiving stimulation. Blindfolds helps emphasise other senses and heighten the stimulation provided. If you’re unsure about playing with a blindfold, use a tie, scarf or anything similar to experiment with.

This Harness from Bijoux Indiscrets is a great way to promote visual arousal. You can either accompany this harness with lingerie or not! Either way, it's going to emphasise the vulnerability of your partner. Making for one of your most passionate encounters yet!

Jock straps are popular BDSM pieces for men. This Strict Leather Deatachable Jock Strap looks like something a gladiator might've donned after a long hard day of brawling in the colosseum. Fortunately if your wearing this, you might have to unsheath thy longsword once more before the days end. Take your time before detaching the front to drive him crazy.

This piece is also a good introduction to leather. Leather is a premium material that is sought after by BDSM fanatics. It's comfort, smell, and longevity make it popular.

Blindfolds are an enlightening bondage piece that are satisfying to the senses and seductive to your partner. This Mystere Lack Mask from Ouch! Emphasises the elegance a blindfold can produce. Blindfolds are great to accompany with other bondage wear or your favourite bondage restraints.

Important things to remember!

Before incorporating any new BDSM toys, actions or language into your sex life, thorough negotiation needs to take place! Discussing the limitations of what each partner is comfortable with is essential to a pleasurable experience.

See our BDSM experts guide on - 'Negotiating a BDSM Scene'

Be sure to identify a safe word beforehand! Popular safe words have been: red, pineapple, banana, yellow or unicorn. However other couples have used unusual terms to interrupt a session such as "Dildo Baggins" or "Donald Trump."

Finally, only participate in BDSM play with someone you have the utmost trust in. This will not only ensure sexual comfort but will further make the entire experience a lot more intimate.

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How to choose a bondage toy
Do you need help choosing your next Bondage Toy? Off to the dungeon we go... Welcome to the wild and wonderful world of bondage toys! Bondage is a type of sexual power play that includes the act of tying up, blindfolding, whipping, spanking, teasing and pleasing a partner, whether it's to make them completely submit to you in a submissive/dominant relationship, or to dabble in a little bit of beginner BDSM or soft bondage.

Bondage play is becoming increasingly popular because it allows couples to explore their sexual fantasies and partake in kinky sexual role-play scenarios, but to give it a try you need to have the right gear! Thankfully, you're in the right place. Adulttoymegastore has the best bondage products needed to explore your bondage fantasies at the lowest possible prices.

What are the best Bondage Toys for beginners?
If you're new to bondage and the wonderful world of BDSM, dip your toes in with beginner-friendly bondage gear to get a feel for pain and pleasure before surrendering yourself completely. For bondage beginners, we recommend starting with Bondage kits, Wrist restraints, Blindfolds, or Fifty Shades of Grey Inspired Bondage Toys.

Read our guide How to Get Started With Bondage Play to find out more about the best beginner bondage toys and how to use them.

Get all tied up with Bondage Restraints
If you're wanting to restrain, position, or tie up a partner, we recommend choosing a bondage restraint product that will fit your need and experience level the best. Bondage beginners should start with wrist restraints before progressing to ankle restraints, and full body restraints. Read our 5 Top Tips for Choosing the Perfect Handcuffs to find out more.

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If you really want to get into character for subversive bondage and kink play, you need to wear a suitable outfit and the matching bondage accessories. For bondage wear, we recommend bondage clothing, Blindfolds, Collars and leads, Gags, Masks, Animal role play items, and Medical role play products, all of which are available at Adulttoymegastore.

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There is a strong relationship between pleasure and pain, and bondage play and BDSM blurs the lines and sexual boundaries between them by pushing you to your sexual limitations. Adulttoymegastore sells the best pain inflicting bondage toys to get you started.

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Advanced BDSM Equipment
If you're looking to step-up your bondage play with sadism, machoism, intense power play and torture for pleasure, an advanced bondage play sex toy is for you! Beware, these adult toys aren't for the faint hearted, and are for dungeon enthusiasts and kink masters only. Our Bondage Gear is designed to help you create the perfect dungeon scene for acting out and exploring your most intense bondage and BDSM sexual fantasies.

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