Secret to enjoyment is to build a box (like a welding rod heat box ) with a 75watt light bulb in it to warm it up,on a timer so it warms up for two hours before use,plus a warming wand inserted up it.If its not warmed up its not enjoyable. At first I thought it unyielding,but its about right on use,very lifelike.Trouble is I cant leave it alone,now.Very moreish. Very good value at the sub $400 price