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How can you last longer during sex?

How can you last longer during sex?

How can guys last longer during sex?

Many people wish they could last longer in bed! Luckily, there are several ways you can make sex last longer and ensure it’s pleasurable for everyone involved. Not lasting long in bed can be incredibly deflating and affect your confidence, making you feel inadequate or like you aren’t good enough. The main thing to remember is that it’s totally okay! People’s sex drives and sexual activity can change from time to time, and can be affected by a range of things – so don’t stress out too much if you can’t last as long as you used to.

There’s no set amount of time that you ‘should’ last in bed either. Sex can last a few minutes, half an hour, longer than an hour – seriously, there’s no average time that you should be aiming for! The main thing is that you and your partner/s are happy and satisfied with how long you’re having sex for. If you and your partner are comfortable with the amount of time you spend having sex, then that’s perfect! Don’t compare your time to someone else’s.

Has anything changed?

The first thing to note is whether anything has changed – could you previously last much longer in bed, but now finish quickly? This could be a sign that something has changed, so it’s a good idea to take note of anything like your diet, medication, exercise or lifestyle that may have changed recently.

Things like stress from work can also impact your sexual performance, so take that into account too! These factors may come and go, so don’t be too worried if things are a bit up and down. Focus on living a healthy, balanced, and active life to feel the best you can!

Remember that your sexual activity and performance will change with age, too., and that’s okay!

If you can’t put a finger on what has changed, then it could be worth a visit to your doctor for a check-up, just to double check that everything is okay. Many men suffer from premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, and it can happen at any age! So don’t be afraid to speak up and ask for help if you think it’s necessary.

So – we’ve covered the basic reasons that you might be finishing early. If everything is okay medically, and you’re still looking to last longer in bed, here are our top tips to heat things up!

Foreplay!

Many couple’s and sexual partners don’t engage in enough foreplay. Whether you’re having a quickie before work in the morning, or just have the notion of getting it ‘over and done with’, set aside a little extra time to engage in some foreplay. Grab some lubricant and start things out a little slower than usual. Explore each other and enjoy putting a bit more attention into understanding what you both enjoy!

Foreplay will help ensure you are both satisfied and for many people, is the best part of sex. Communicate and try new things before jumping straight into it!

Switch positions

Sometimes, changing positions can also help you last longer in bed. If you usually resort to one position during sex, why not try switching things up a little? There are heaps of different sex positions you can try! Play around with what feels good for you.

This also goes for switching up the motions during sex – slow it down, speed it up, whatever feels good. Simply trying new things can make a world of difference!

Sex Toys

You could also try adding some sex toys into the equation! How about a vibrator or some bondage products to switch things up a little?

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Cock rings can also help prolong an erection! Something simple like the Mega Stretch Doughnut Ring is perfect to help increase strength and size. Or, if you want something a little more pleasurable, the Amore Cock Ring has a vibrating function to keep you and your partner screaming all night!

Condoms?! Condoms can actually help you last longer in bed! That’s right, while you might not enjoy wearing them, condoms can help you last longer! Of course, condoms are important to prevent pregnancy and STIs, but condoms made with a thicker material can delay ejaculation.

You might feel a bit of a delayed sensation, but this is ultimately what will help you last longer!

Communication

Always talk to your partner, whether long-term or casual, about what’s going on! It’s important for them to understand your situation, especially if you are feeling self-conscious or feel as though you aren’t performing in bed. Talking it out will help you both understand each other’s needs, and keep them in the loop of what’s up and how you’re feeling!

Ultimately, if you’re worried that something is wrong, a trip to your doctor is definitely your best bet and being in the right hands will help ease your mind.

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Adulttoymegastore has a huge range of sex toys including vibrators, dildos and cock rings for every occasion! With fast, 100% discreet shipping, and price guarantee, ATMS has everything you need to make good sex, great!

Georgia May, Adult Toy & Lingerie Expert
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