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What material collar and lead is best for beginners?

What material collar and lead is best for beginners?

What material collar and lead is best for beginners?

Jump into the world of bondage with a collar and lead! Collars and leads are the perfect way to control your submissive partner, and can also be perfect for roleplaying too.

A lot of collars and leads come with both parts of the puzzle as a set, however you can also purchase collars and leads separately too. They come in a range of materials, sizes, and styles, meaning you can find something that fits you perfect in the style you like!

How can I use a collar and lead safely?

The key when it comes to any sort of bondage or BDSM play, is ensuring communication at all times, so you can always check in with your partner and understand how they are feeling. If you’re new to using collars and leads, it’s important to ensure the collar fits you or your partner comfortable and isn’t causing any pain.

Make sure you try on your collar and lead ahead of time, so you know it fits and that it’s comfortable.

It’s a great idea to talk things through before you get down to it too, as it’s easy to get caught up in the moment. Set clear boundaries and understand each other’s limits. Having a safe word or action can also help you feel more comfortable and set your mind at ease, so definitely discuss this too!

After you’ve finished using your collar and lead, or partaking in any sort of BDSM play, ensure you have time set aside for plenty of after care if necessary.

After care can look different for everyone, but essentially you want to reassure your partner, talk about what happened, tend to any injuries, and check in with each other. It can be difficult coming back to reality after BDSM play for some people, so this is essential!

What are the best collars and leads?

Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Chocker BlackBijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Chocker Black$65.95Shop NowBijoux Indiscrets Maze Wide ChockerBijoux Indiscrets Maze Wide Chocker$86.95Shop Now

Bijoux Indiscrets is a luxury brand well known for their amazing range of products, including lingerie, fashion jewellery, candles, bondage items, and more!

The Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker is 100% adjustable, with a buckle on the back for a snug fit. Made from 100% vegan polyurethane straps, this collar adds a bold touch to any outfit or lingerie set. The tassels allow you to take control and lead, or be led, and also doubles as the perfect whip to caress your partner’s body!

The Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Wide Choker is just as bold and daring, with a gold chain and leather-look lead attached to a wide choker. The perfect accessory for all your bondage games, and also an easy way to spice up your look – whether in the bedroom or at a festival!

These sets both have a smooth, comfortable material that not only looks great, but feels comfortable against the skin.

Ouch Skulls and Bones  Neck Chain with Skulls  LeashOuch! Skulls And Bones - Neck Chain With Skulls & Leash $49.95Shop NowOuch Skulls and Bones  Neck Chain with Spikes  LeashOuch! Skulls And Bones - Neck Chain With Spikes & Leash $49.95Shop Now

The stunning Ouch! Skulls and Bones collar and lead will definitely make a statement, with two rows of skulls with o-rings in the middle. The high-quality bonded leather and grey metal are designed with quality and comfort in mind, making it a great piece to bring into the bedroom.

The Ouch! Skulls and Bones with Spikes has a very similar design, but with hardcore spikes around the collar that will really stand out.

Sinful Pink CollarSinful Pink Collar$25.95Shop Now

The Sinful Pink Collar is made from soft neoprene ensuring no unnecessary discomfort to you your or your partner. The high-quality contractions and materials mean you can focus all your energy on enjoy yourself!

Coax Collar to Wrist RestraintsCoax Collar To Wrist Restraints$69.95Shop Now

A lot of collars will also come with hand cuff attachments, like the Coax Collar to Wrist Restraints! Lock up your slave in this attractive and unique collar to wrist restraint set. This three-in-one bondage gear contains a luxurious vegan-friendly collar with three D-rings, two cuffs, and connector chains. The comfortable padding will feel safe and secure, while the duotone, brass-coated hooks and gold embellishments look incredible!

What materials are the best for collars and leads?

Material doesn’t matter too much, but it’s super important to make sure the collar and lead you purchase fits comfortably and securely on you or your partner. If you’re just starting out, it might be best to opt for something that has extra padding too!

When purchasing any products for a partner, make sure you both do the shopping together as well – shopping for sex toys online can actually be heaps of fun! This will ensure you both know what you are getting into, and there won’t be any unwelcome surprises if you are new to the BDSM scene.

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