
We asked 5000 Kiwi's what their favourite sex position is: here's what they told us
By Emma Hewitt·18 Sep 2026
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Liberator Black Label Wedge Positioning Aid With Cuffs$299.95View productThe results are in! In our recent Mega Kiwi Sex Survey, we asked almost 5000 people what their favourite sex position was, and it looks like we’re a nation of doggy-style lovers, New Zealand.
34% of survey respondents said that doggy-style is their favourite position, and it came out on top across all genders. Which makes a lot of sense. Doggy style can include vaginal or anal sex, and it’s a great position for sex with a strap-on dildo too, so it really offers something for everybody.
And doggy-style sex is particularly popular for women. 69% of women said that it’s their favourite position (nice).
While Doggy-style is the most popular favourite, it’s Missionary that Kiwis are doing the most, with 40% of respondents reporting it as their most common sex position.
Missionary is relatively easy for both partners as it doesn’t require too much physicality. It’s good early in the morning or late at night when you are feeling sleepy. But for those with the energy for it, doggy-style sex can be a hell of a good time.
Why do people love doggy-style sex so much?
There’s a lot to love about doggy-style sex.
1. Doggy-style gives a great view
Doggy-style gives the person at the back a great view of their partner's booty sticking up in the air. And they can watch their penis or dildo sliding in and out of their partner's body, which can be a huge turn-on.
2. Doggy-style offers deep penetration
Due to the angle, this is a great position for those that like deep penetration. And doggy-style can result in G-spot stimulation for lots of people, as the arch of the back allows the penis or dildo to hit just the right spot.
3. Doggy-style is the perfect position for easy clitoral stimulation
Because doggy-style has the penetrating person at the back, this means there is easy access to the clitoris. The person in front can use one hand to hold themselves up, and the other to massage their clitoris, or the person at the back can easily reach around and do it.
And, if the person in the front has a penis, the same thing applies. They can rub themselves, or it’s an easy position for a reach-around from the partner at the back.
4. Doggy-style has a primal feel
It’s all in the name, really. Doggy-style feels primal. It’s a position that gets your heart rate going and can be fast, powerful, and rough if you want it to. With doggy, both partners get a workout. It also leans well into power play if the partner at the back wants to take on a more dominant role. Booty slapping, hair grabbing and strong hands are all easy in this position.
How to make doggy-style sex even better
I know, I know, it’s already a great position, but here are a few tips anyway.
1. Use a sex toy in front
As I said, doggy provides easy access to play with the partner in front, making it a perfect position for using toys too. And it’s one of the few sex positions where using an air pulse vibrator on the clitoris is easy, as it won’t be knocked out of the way by the other body. A bullet vibe will also work wonders here.
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2. Use a ball stretcher or swinging cock ring
Doggy style is the perfect position for a ball stretcher if you like the feeling of your balls bouncing against your body, as it leaves plenty of room for swinging action. A cock ring with a swinging tip can also stimulate you and your partner as it bounces between your bodies.
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3. Use a position enhancer
If you get tired during doggy style (so fair), there are some very cool position enhancers you can use to keep things comfortable for your body.
Doggy-style straps loop around the hips of the person in front, giving them extra support and putting more control in the hands of the person in the back who holds the straps.
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You can also use wedge cushions to rest your body on without adding extra weight to the person in the back. These aren’t your average couch cushions, by the way. They are made of sturdy memory foam that holds you up in just the right position. Some even have toy holders or bondage attachments.
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4. Do it in front of a mirror
If you miss the intensity of eye contact, do it in front of a mirror. It gives a great view of the action for both of you.
The five most popular sex positions in New Zealand are:
- Doggy-style (34%)
- Legs–up (16%)
- Missionary (14%)
- 69 (6%)
- Reverse cowgirl (5%)
The least popular were Standing (1%) and the Lotus (0.5%).
To find out more about how Kiwis are dating and having sex, check out the full results of the Mega Kiwi Sex Survey 2025.
Read more about sex positions:
- The Speed Bump Sex Position: How to Do It & Why It’s So Good
- 5 of the Best Cowgirl Sex Position Variations to Boost Your Sex Life
- 5 Missionary Sex Position Variations to Boost Your Sex Life
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