5 Step Guide: How to Use a Male Masturbator

So you want to use a masturbator? Maybe it's your first time. Or you weren't entirely sure what to do the first time around. So now you’re back for more. Whatever the reason, putting your sexual pleasure into your own hands is a great step towards a more fulfilled sex life! No matter if you're single or coupled up, masturbation is a completely normal part of everyday life, for men and women alike.

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1. Release your tension

The first step to successful masturbation is to ease your nerves! If you're worried about someone walking in on you, lock your door or take things to a room that has a lockable door. Whether it's your parents, flatmates, or the well-trained family pet, having someone walk in on you mid-orgasm is probably one of your biggest nightmares, so keep your mind at ease by avoiding the situation as best you can. Maybe put some music on to mask the inevitable sounds, too. Hey, we're all about sex positivty, but we know you want to keep things discreet!

Like any self-love sesh, you want to be relaxed and comfortable before beginning. Prop some pillows up, light a candle, dim the lights – whatever it takes!

2. Choose the right product

From strokers to eggs, there are a huge range of male masturbators to choose from. While the variety is incredible, if you're just starting out it can be hard to know which product is right for you or where to start out.

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These TENGA eggs are a great introduction to the world of masturbators! Designed for one-time use, the TENGA eggs are small and discreet, meaning you can tuck them in your pocket or take them away on holiday, and no one will suspect a thing! They come in a variety of textures to suit any preference and make the perfect beginner’s sex toy.

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Strokers are the next step up, designed to be used again and again (when cared for properly!). Strokers are sleeves that are slipped over the penis, typically lined with ribs and textures for an enhanced experience. There are many types of patterns and materials used to create different sensations and experiences to suit your every need.

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The Fleshlight brand has become one of the most well-known and appreciated masturbator brands. With a range of Fleshlight girls, modelled off real life pornstars, and other exciting products, this brand is the ultimate choice for all your masturbator needs!

3. Use plenty of lubricant!

No matter the type of masturbator you decide on, it's important to use lots of lubricant to keep everything smooth and comfortable at all times. Some masturbators might be self-lubricating, but you never know when you might need a little bit extra!

Lubricant is perfect for helping enhance your experience and making everything feel just a little bit better.

4. Experiment

Unfortunately there's no "Masturbating 101" guide that will apply to every single man in the universe. It's just not a one-size-fits-all scenario. In order to make the most of your male masturbator, it might take a little bit of experimenting to get it right!

You can experiment with different speeds, holding your masturbator with different amounts of pressure, or using your new masturbator with a partner.

5. How to clean your masturbator

It's vital to ensure your masturbator is cleaned thoroughly and properly after use! This will help it last longer and keep everything safe and hygienic at all times. Be sure to consider any special cleaning instructions or advice that your toy has – some materials might not work well with every cleaning method!

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There are many sex toy cleaners to choose from that will help ensure your new sex toy stays in tip-top shape!

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