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The Best Places to Spank With a Whip or Flogger Sex Toy

By Orin Ruaine-Prattley one year ago. Posted in Sex Tips
The Best Places to Spank With a Whip or Flogger Sex Toy

Spanking with a whip, flogger or any sex toy takes a certain deal of trust. Whether you're a beginner, or a fully-fledged dominatrix you need to know where it is okay to spank or not. Like any bondage play, limitations and boundaries need to be discussed beforehand by those involved.

There are some areas that are simply safer to spank compared to others. The general theme is that areas that naturally have a surplus of fat in them are better to spank, the most common example is the buttocks. The other thing to generally consider is what organs are behind the area we are striking. This explain why the torso is not the most popular place to strike.

Best Places to Spank with a Whip/Flogger

Below are the most recommended places to spank when using a whip, going from most recommended to least as you scroll down. The article also shows some absolute no go zones near the bottom!


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When it comes to bondage play the butt is always putting itself on the line. This thing can take a beating, that's why it's recommended that 70-80% of all flogging or whipping that takes place should be here.

What's even better is that you have so much surface area to play with. So, spread the spanking like those beauties are erogenous slices of toast. Mixing up the areas where you spank also makes it easier for your partner, striking the same spot over and over can become unbearable. If you'd like to prolong some promiscuous punishment, just hit it from all angles.

Never spank just above the peek of the buttocks, keep your kidneys and tail bone safe!

Upper Back

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The upper back is a great place to flog for beginners. Like the butt, it's a pretty tough spot to miss. Yet, we have to acknowledge that the spine, neck and head aren't too far away. This is why practicing on a pillow and getting a good grasp on the dimensions of your brand spanking new sex toy is so important!

Striking the upper back repeatedly builds up endorphins that will release depending on an individual's pain threshold. The greater the pain threshold of the submissive, the more intense the stimulation can be from endorphin release. Although being a good place to start, the upper back isn't the most popular of areas, society is just obsessed with the curvacious and irresistible booty.

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Upper Thigh

The upper thigh is recommended to be struck 20-30% of the time during an overall spanking. It's important to note the difference between the upper and mid-thigh, as the two areas vary in terms of how much they can take! The general rule is that areas of the body should be spanked less depending on their natural size, musculature and tenderness. The upper thigh is the thickest area of the thigh, a slight strip immediately beneath the butt! (refer to the above diagram)


The mid-thigh is recommended to be struck 10-20% of the time. However, your sensual swatting should be taken a bit lighter compared to other areas. It's best to not strike anywhere below halfway of the entire thigh.

Light Flogging Areas

Light flogging does not take anything away from the sensations of spanking. These areas aren't as tender, so the sensations can be relative to a hard spanking on the butt. Yet it's recommended that these areas are struck the least and often are only hit upon specific request of a submissive. Areas that can be lightly flogged are: the lower legs, breasts, arms, upper shoulders and genitals.


Keep your whips and flogger strictly away from your face, head, neck, fingers, toes and spine. For obvious reasons!

Important things to remember

Always practice on a pillow before using any new whip or flogger. Try to grasp the length of the whip tails or if it's a flogger, how wide of an area the tails will sting.

Before any dom ans sub play. Discuss boundaries, this may be where you are comfortable being spanked or flogged and the intensity of each stroke. How hard one is comfortable is being hit may take a bit of trial and error, but starting off light is the safest option!

If any BDSM play becomes too painful or uncomfortable for the spanker or spankee communicate that you'd like to stop. Identify a safe word to put an immediate stop to anything overwhelming, make sure it's not a common word that pops up in the heat of things.

Consider aftercare for the affected areas. This may be applying your selected lotion to ease areas post sting. During it's always a good idea to rub the areas after each stroke, this is great in making sure flogging is stimulating as well as intimate.

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