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Sapiosexuality: Everything You Need to Know

Sapiosexuality: Everything You Need to Know

Sapiosexuality: everything you need to know

For many people, finding the "perfect" partner involves an extensive list of desired qualities and added bonuses, along with the realisation that sometimes, you can't have it all.

Often these sought-after qualities are the things that you're most attracted to when you see a stranger walk down the street. But sometimes, you have to get to know someone a bit more than just a nod on the street.

Good looking, funny, kind - these are often at the top of many single's lists. But how about smart? That’s where sapiosexuality comes in!

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Sapiosexuality refers to when someone is sexually attracted to intelligence and the human mind, often seeing it as the most sexually attractive thing to them. As opposed to people who simply like intelligence, sapiosexuals often find this quality arousing, and relate it to sexual activities.

How do you know if you're sapiosexual?

If the idea of someone solving math problems in the blink of an eye, or reciting the first hundred digits of Pi turns you on, then it's very likely you might be sapiosexual.

Likewise, if discussing politics before sex if your idea of "dirty talk", you might be sapiosexual.

Essentially, sapiosexuality is more than just a crush on someone you find a little nerdy, it's a sexual desire. Some have even referred to it as a mix between a sexual orientation and a fetish.

Sapiosexuals aren't always incredibly intellectual and intelligent themselves. They might just find it sexy when others talk smart - or, they might need someone on the same wavelength of them to partake in conversations and debates. It totally depends!

If you've never been in a serious relationship before, then you might not know whether you are sapiosexual or not - that is, if you haven't had the chance to try new things and test out your desires/fetishes. But often it will take sapiosexuals a while to form a romantic connection, as you're attracted to their brain - and their true intelligence might not be evident at first. But don't give up hope!

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Other aspects

A common misconception about sapiosexuality is that people are only attracted to intelligence. In fact, those who identify as sapiosexual have a range of other features and qualities they find sexually attractive. Just as other people have a range of things that turn them on, sapiosexuals are no different!

Relationships

Often sapiosexuals will end up dating each other, because they are drawn to and appreciate each other’s intelligence. However, this isn't always the case, so you might find yourself in a sticky situation if you have an incredibly smart, but not sapiosexual, partner.

You'll need to establish where you draw the lines and how you can come to a comfortable medium to meet both of your needs. While they may be just as intelligent as you are, they don't necessarily want to read literary articles for you as a form of foreplay.

If you're in a relationship with someone else who is also a sapiosexual, you might still have different ideas of what turns you on, just like in any relationship.

Ensure you have good communication and can talk about these things openly - while a heated debate might turn you on, one that's about your relationship is definitely something to steer clear of!

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Sexuality

Sapiosexuals can be any gender, and can also associate with other sexual identities. That means you can be sapiosexual but also identify as homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, and so on.

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