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The Ultimate Guide to Strap-on Dildos for Beginners

By TJ Dosanjh 5 months ago. Posted in Sex Toy Guides
The Ultimate Guide to Strap-on Dildos for Beginners

Beginner's Guide to Strap on Dildos

One in every five people own a Dildo, and when it comes to versatility, a strap-on dildo is a man’s, and a woman’s, (pretty much everyone's) best friend!

That's because strap-on dildos are perfect for penetrative sex with a partner, either vaginally or anally. So whether you're in a same-sex retlationship and want to try out strap-on sex, or in a heterosexual relationship and are looking to explore "pegging" (female penetrates male anally using a strap-on), this guide will tell you everything you need to know about strap-on dildos if you're a beginner.

This article covers:

  • Different types of Strap-on Dildos
  • Pegging
  • Strap-on attachments

strap on dildo with harness on female

What is a strap-on dildo? What do you do with it?

Let's start with the basics. A strap-on dildo is basically a dildo that's designed to be worn with a harness, which is then used for sexual penetration – either vaginally, anally, or both.

What makes a strap-on unique is the different types of strap-on dildos and the different range of activities you can achieve with them.

A strap-on harness is worn around the hips and buttocks, and allows the dildo be be held in place and used by thrusting your hips, just like you would with a penis, during penetrative sex.

strap on dildo harness back view

What are the different types of strap-on dildos available?

Let's have a quick look at the main types of strap-on dildos...

different types of strap on dildos

Beginner strap-on dildos

Bardot Garter BeltStyle Strap On Harness
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Bend Over Beginner Harness
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Bend Over Beginner Harness
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Starting at the easy end, these silicone strap-on dildos are great for beginners as they’re both small, smooth and leave room for error.

Vibrating strap-on dildos

Fetish Fantasy Gold First Time Vibrating StrapOn Set
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Vibrating Butterfly StrapOn Purple
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Vibrating Butterfly Strap-on Purple
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If you’re a beginner but you're still looking for that extra bit of stimulation, Vibrating strap-on dildos take your strap-on adventures to the next level. Let’s face it, everything is better when it vibrates.

Female on female

Silicone Love Rider Strapless StrapOn
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Feeldoe Slim Tantus
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This is where things get more interesting, these female on female strap-on dildos are curved to provide stimulation to her as she inserts it into her vagina while her partner feels the sensations of penetration.

Although these strap-on dildos are mainly for female partners, they can be used by a female on a male but that's usually uncommon as harness strap-on dildos stay more intact for pegging.

What is pegging?

PeggingImage source: www.liveabout.com

The term "pegging" also referred as "Bend Over Boyfriend" or "BOB" when used in a sexual context is used to describe anal sex, more specifically a woman penetrating a man anally using a strap-on dildo.

Like most other forms of anal penetration, pegging is completely safe and a very pleasurable sexual activity. However, it needs to be done properly.

Most straight men carry a stigma regarding anal activities, so it's important to deal with these psychological blockades and get comfortable before pleasurable anal sex can take place.

pegging with strap on dildo educational graphic

Hollow strap-on dildos

Fetish Fantasy Series 8 Inch Hollow StrapOn
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Hollow Surge Strap On
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If you're someone who suffers from erectile dysfunction or you feel that you’re simply just missing those extra couple of inches that make good sex great, hollow strap-on dildos are the solution to all your problems.

Most hollow strap-on dildos are one size fits all so all you have to do is clip it on and you're good to go.

Vac-U-Lock Strap-on dildos

VacULock 6 Inch UR3 Cock Vibro With Ultra Harness
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One of the most complicated things regarding strap-on sex is making sure you get the right harness that matches your dildo and other attachments. One way to stay away from this problem is to purchase a Vac-U-Lock strap-on dildo.

Unlike most O-ring shaped strap-ons, the Vac-U-Lock features its unique plug system which securely holds your attachment in place for all the penetrative time you need.

The great thing about Vac-U-Lock is that any other Vac-U-Lock products you purchase will all be compatible with each other. You'll never be in the mess of having incompatible sex toys again.

Strap on essentials

MOIST ANAL LUBE 4 0Z 100ml
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Anal Lube Cherry Scented 6oz177ml
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Regardless of what type of strap-on sex you decided to indulge in, its imperative to have plenty of lube to assure that your experience is as pleasurable as possible. Water-based anal lubricants are a great option as they leave little room for trouble.

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