As someone that isn’t new to anal play, the ideal of a double penetrator that moves during sex (rather than a butt plug that stays stationary) was definitely a little intimidating. Would the movement feel good? Would something with ridges be too intense? Would it actually stay in or awkwardly pop out? There were so many possibilities that it did take me awhile to try it – but I’m so glad that I did!
The Fantasy C-Ringz Posable Partner Double Penetrator (wow that’s a mouthful!) is one of the less scary looking options that are out there. It is held in place by a cock ring which also has a bullet vibe at the top for some clitoral stimulation. It has soft bumps along the shaft and has some squish to the material as well, which is definitely preferable over something more rigid.
Personally, I don’t find vibrating cock rings particularly stimulating so we just removed the vibe from this one so it wouldn’t get in the way of holding a clitoral vibe instead. The bullet vibe that is in the box isn’t bad by any means, though it is on the buzzy side of things so if you like power, I would suggest subbing it out for something with more rumble.
Before you get started, douching is a must! Because this is a product that you’re going to be thrusting in and out, you don’t want any unwelcome surprises making an appearance! I would also recommend popping a towel down anyway just for peace of mind. After you have thoroughly douched, an anal lubricant is 100% necessary. You don’t want any drag or sticking in this situation! A water-based anal lubricant would be a great option, and don’t be shy with the amount – the more the better really.
When it came down to using the Posable Partner, it took a little maneuvering to get things where I wanted them to be. I’d recommend utilizing the posable side of things early on when trying to figure out the position you want it bent in before you really get going. You don’t want to kill the mood by having to adjust it to be more or less curved.
The thrusting motion did take a little getting used to, and because of this I did tense up, which is the exact opposite of what you want to do during anal play. After actively trying to relax my muscles and just enjoy the flow of things, it was great! The Posable Partner adds a level of fullness that is different to a butt plug, and more dynamic in a way. My partner did have to be careful of how far he pulled out, but that wasn’t a big deal at all. The soft bumps were also amazing! I wasn't sure if these would be particularly stimulating, but they definitely added some variation and a really great feeling to the mix.
Overall, I would definitely recommend this product for those who are interested in double penetration without adding a third person! Plus, if you are single, you could always pop this on your favourite vibrator or dildo to change things up a bit. It’s easy enough to use, but does require a fair bit of preparation beforehand, though I would say that it is worth it!