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How often do people discuss sex/masturbation with each other?

How often do people discuss sex/masturbation with each other?

How often do people discuss sex/masturbation with each other?

Often, sex and masturbation are seen as very taboo topics. Some people feel uncomfortable talking about the ins and outs of their personal lives beyond closed doors, even with friends. Others love dishing out all the tiny details and sharing the goss!

But how often do people actually talk about it? Is it okay to bring up the topic when you’re having a movie night or watching the rugby or just out for a few drinks with friends? Here’s all the info you need about discussing sex, masturbation, and everything in between!

Is it okay to discuss sex and masturbation?

Talking about sex is totally okay! Whether you talk about it or not, it’s still happening, so you shouldn’t feel any shame in bringing up the topic. Whether you’re after advice from friends who might have been in your situation, or want to share the love and tell them about the latest sex toy you’ve tried, you shouldn’t feel ashamed to discuss these things. After all, it’s natural!

Many studies have shown that masturbation and sex are both important parts of a healthy and fulfilled life, and sexual pleasure can help reduce stress, improve sleep, and many other health benefits. Plus, letting yourself indulge in sexual pleasure can help boost your confidence dramatically! Whether you’re solo, with a partner, with multiple partners – whatever your situation, talking about sex with friends and other people can be liberating. Also, it can be pretty fun and relieving to let your guard down!

Talking about the topic with someone you are romantically or sexually involved with is very important. This ensures that everyone is on the same page and you can effectively discuss what you do and don’t enjoy, your limits and boundaries, and so on.

How can I bring up the topic?

Bringing up the topic of sex and masturbation can be a bit tricky. Maybe you’re not sure how your friends will react to it, or you’re worried that it might scare away someone you’ve just started seeing.

The main thing is to be confident and know what you want to talk about. Bringing up sex and masturbation all at once might be a bit too much, but if you focus on one thing specifically it might be easier to digest. Do you want to know whether your partner is into bondage? Or whether your friends still masturbate despite being in a relationship? Don’t beat around the bush!

You could also try bringing it up casually – why not ask your friends whether they’ve heard of the world-famous Satisfyer Pro 2? This toy has been taking over the world, with thousands of women who have never touched a sex toy before rushing to buy one. It could be the perfect way to open up a conversation about masturbation, and who knows, maybe all of your friends already have one!

Respect boundaries

Chances are, your friends or partner/s will be excited that you’ve started the discussion! You’d be surprised by how much people love talking about sex, but are sometimes too afraid to bring up the subject.

However, there will be some people who might not be so comfortable sharing information about their sex life. That’s totally okay! It’s important to understand that not everybody is the same, so respect your friend’s boundaries if they aren’t so keen to delve into discussion.

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Adulttoymegastore has a huge range of sex toys including vibrators, dildos and cock rings for every occasion! With fast, 100% discreet shipping, and price guarantee, ATMS has everything you need to make good sex, great!

Georgia May, Adult Toy & Lingerie Expert
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