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What are ten tips to be great in bed?

What are ten tips to be great in bed?

What are ten tips to be great in bed?

There are always ways you can improve your sex life! No matter if you’re satisfied or not with your current situation, you can always make a good thing, better. There are many reasons why your sex life might feel as though it’s on a bit of a decline. Work stress, stress from kids or family, general life happenings – we’ve all been there! Luckily, there are some really easy ways to help spice things up and give you the little boost you need.

Set the mood

You want to be comfortable and ~feeling sexy~ before things get started, so making sure you’re in a safe and positive environment is essential. Dim the lights, have a quick shower to feel refreshed, get into some sexy lingerie or light a candle - whatever gets you in the mood.

Communication!

It goes without saying that communication is super important to ensure everyone is having a good time, at all times! Whether you are in a relationship, have several sexual partners or enjoy a one night stand here and there, communication is vital. Being able to communicate with your partner about what feels good and what you enjoy is really important. If you aren’t able to tell them what feels good and what doesn’t, then how are they supposed to know what to do? Lack of communication in the bedroom can lead to unsatisfactory sex, and create tension in a relationship.

If you’re not sure how to communicate, start off by telling your partner when something feels good. Just saying “I like it when you do that” is enough to boost their confidence, and help show them what you like. It doesn’t have to be hard and can improve your whole relationship!

Switch it up!

Trying something new can help break the feeling of routine and dramatically increase your pleasure in the bedroom! If you’re used to doing one or two positions every time, or sex is starting to feel like a ‘routine’ more than anything, then why not change things up a bit?

Simply trying a new position that you might not have tried before can make a huge difference! Or, if you usually get down and dirty in the evening, try setting aside a bit of time in the morning. This can help make sex feel more exciting!

Another option is to have sex somewhere that you usually wouldn’t – in the car, on the couch, on the floor. It might not be as good as where you usually do the deed, but definitely helps bring the spark back a little!

Wetter is better

This might seem pretty simple, and might be something you already implement in your sex life. But lubricant can make things feel a whole lot better!

Despite popular belief, you don’t just use lube because you’re lacking natural lubrication. Lube can help ease discomfort, and make everything slide in and feel a whole lot better. If you haven’t tried incorporating it into your sex life yet, now’s the time!

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Both Wet Stuff Gold and Moist are best-sellers that will definitely amp up your sex life.

Toys

Have you considered adding a sex toy into your life? This is the perfect way to try something fun and a little out of your comfort zone. Whether you prefer vibrators or dildos, there is something out there for everyone!

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If you have a partner, incorporating sex toys in the bedroom can be a bit hit or miss. The main thing is that you don’t ‘surprise’ them with it mid-act, as you don’t know how they will respond – bring it up beforehand, and make sure you reassure them it’s not because they aren’t good enough. You want to include sex toys to increase both of your pleasure!

Starting off with a couples toy like a cock ring is a great idea, or if you want something a little more versatile, the Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2 is great for anyone!

Games

Sex doesn’t have to be a serious affair. It’s fun! So why not make it more fun by adding in some little games? This can be as simple as you and your partner writing down some things you’ve always wanted to try, putting them in a jar, and picking one out to try every night. This can help you branch out and open conversations around things you’ve always wanted to try!

What about the sex position challenge? Try out as many new positions as you can in one session! Who knows, maybe you’ll find a favourite new position…

Restrict the senses

Restricting the senses can be an easy way to make ordinary sex, a whole lot hotter. Simply grab a blindfold, or something like a scarf that can double as a blindfold, and tease your partner! By restricting one sense, it can make everything else feel a whole lot better and intensify the sensations!

Switch on the lights

Often, people feel more comfortable having sex with the lights off, but being able to see your partner during sex can be a huge turn on. Try switching on the bedside lamp to increase you and your partner’s arousal and intimacy!

You can also try having sex in front of a mirror to add to the visual aspect – this can help increase confidence and sexual tension, and makes for a great memory to think back on.

Be spontaneous!

Sometimes, you need to schedule in sex to fit around your busy schedules. But if you’ve got a bit of free time over the weekend or get home a little early one day, make a move on your partner! Being a little spontaneous can be super sexy and endearing, and helps break up your routine and add a little excitement in. You can get creative, too – jump in the shower with your partner in the morning, or tease them with some foreplay while you’re watching a movie on the couch. It’s up to you!

Sex board game?!

Lastly, if you and your partner love a good game of Monopoly, adding a sexy board game into the mix can be the perfect way to kick off the night.

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If you’re a little nervous, start out with something that isn’t too intimidating like the We’ve Never cards. Perfect for learning more about your partner’s sexual wishes, this card will bring laughter, understanding, and better sex into your relationship.

Go the full mile with the Sex! Board Game. Move around the board and engage in erotic foreplay and tantalizing sex-play by answering trivia questions and playing out fantasies. The perfect naughty board game!

Boundaries!

Just like when you’re trying anything new in life, remember that everyone has boundaries and things they won’t be interested in trying out. Which is totally okay! Everyone’s different, and it’s important to respect people’s limits and understand what they are keen to do, and what they aren’t. Consent is key!

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Adulttoymegastore has a huge range of sex toys including vibrators, dildos and cock rings for every occasion! With fast, 100% discreet shipping, and price guarantee, ATMS has everything you need to make good sex, great!

Georgia May, Adult Toy & Lingerie Expert
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