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If you accidentally find a friend’s sex toy, do you tell them?

If you accidentally find a friend’s sex toy, do you tell them?

If you accidentally find a friend’s sex toy, do you tell them?

Sex toys are nothing to be embarrassed about. Sexual pleasure and satisfaction is something that should be celebrated, whether you openly share your sex life with friends or prefer to keep things a little more private. Some people enjoy sharing the ins and outs of their sexual endeavours, and some prefer keeping it on the down low – whatever you prefer, it’s totally okay!

But what should you do if you accidentally find a friend’s sex toy? Maybe they left it in the shower or on their bedside table when you were visiting, or you saw it peeking out of its hiding spot under the bed… Should you bring it up or tell them?

The short answer is, no, you probably shouldn’t point it out in case they are uncomfortable talking about it, or didn’t want you seeing it in the first place. While it’s nothing to be ashamed of, maybe they just want to keep things private! Especially if you have never talked about vibrators or dildos before, the best bet is to turn a blind eye.

However, in some cases it might be appropriate to ask them about it – especially if you’re interested in opening an honest and positive discussion about toys. Here are some things to consider before mentioning it!

Do you know much about their sex life?

Do they like to share the intimate details and ins and outs of their sex life with you? If they regularly tell you about what they get up to in the bedroom, or you’ve discussed using sex toys before, then it might be okay to mention that you spotted one in their bedroom.

If you’ve never heard them talk about any part of their sex life, then there’s a good chance it isn’t the right time to bring up the sex toys.

Have you been friends for long?

If you haven’t known the person for that long, or you are workmates or friends of friends, then it probably isn’t okay to bring it up. They might feel uncomfortable or awkward, and it could ruin the start of a great friendship or make them wary to hang out with you again.

If you don’t know much about their life in general, then probably the last thing they want to talk about with you is sex toys! If they saw your sex toy, would you want them to bring it up? If the answer is no, then think twice before announcing it.

Is anyone else there?

They might have flatmates, or children, or maybe you’re at their house with a few other friends. Would they want you to bring it up in front of a crowd? Maybe not, especially if there are people of the opposite gender present, or people they aren’t super close with. Save the chat for a time when it’s just the two of you and don’t draw attention to the toy!

How do you bring it up?

The most important thing if you would like to bring up the fact that you saw a sex toy in their home, is to make sure you aren’t judging them or being negative. Ask yourself, why do you want to mention it in the first place? If it’s just to have a laugh or make a rude comment about it, then best to avoid the topic at all costs. However, if you’re genuinely curious about opening up the discussion, start with something positive that doesn’t put it all on them – how about “have you heard of the Satisfyer Pro 2? That way, they don’t necessarily need to know that you saw their sex toy, but it opens up the conversation and is a much easier way to ease into things.

Respect boundaries!

Whether you decide to bring up the topic or not, make sure you read the situation and respect their boundaries! If someone says they aren’t comfortable talking about the topic, or clearly look like they aren’t enjoying it, then politely change the subject to respect them and their privacy. While it’s great to share the highs and lows of your sex life, not everyone wants to do the same – and that’s totally okay too.

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Looking to dive into the world of sex toys, but aren’t sure where to start? We’ve got you covered! Check out some of our best-sellers below…

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