Sex Toy Material Guide | Lube, Cleaning & Storage Tips

Learn everything about sex toy materials, their safety, recommended lubricants, and how to clean and store your toys.
Wondering what's in your sex toys? This sex toy material guide will tell you everything you need to know. The material of your toy will affect the feel, durability, and maintenance. These are all important factors to consider – luckily, this guide is here to help you navigate these decisions. We’ll cover all kinds of materials, from silicone and ABS to latex and leather. For each material we cover, we’ll consider the kinds of lubricants you can use, how easy it is to clean, and the best way to store them, amongst other factors. No matter whether you’re a beginner, a sex toy connoisseur, or just someone buying toys, we hope you’ll find this guide useful!
Table of Contents
SiliconeABS Plastic
PVC
Metal
Steel
Glass – regular
Borosilicate Glass
TPE
TPR
TPU
Rubber
Polycarbonate
Polypropylene
Wood
Wax
Leather
Suede
Faux Leather
Vinyl
PU
Latex
Polyester
Nylon
Hemp
Cotton
Silk
Spandex
Satin
Neoprene
Faux Fur
Comparison Tables
Silicone
Silicone toys can vary in firmness and flexibility, from soft and squishy to firm, and quickly adjust to body temperature for a natural feel.
Which lubricant can I use with silicone sex toys?
- You can use water-based, oil-based, or hybrid lubricants.
- Avoid silicone-based lubricants with some silicone toys.
How do I clean and store silicone sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
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ABS Plastic
ABS plastic is rigid and not very flexible, making it ideal for internal or external vibrators, including g-spot and p-spot massagers.
Which lubricant can I use with ABS sex toys?
- You can use any lubricant with ABS plastic sex toys.
How do I clean and store ABS plastic sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
Because of this, PVC toys are not safe to share between partners unless a condom is used, and condoms are also recommended for anal use.
Some PVC sex toys may contain phthalates, which can interfere with the body's hormone production system, known as the endocrine system. Phthalates have been linked to developmental, reproductive, brain, immune, and other health issues. It is not known whether condoms can protect against these toxins, so always look for phthalate-free PVC.
Which lubricant can I use with PVC sex toys?
- Use water-based lubricants only.
How do I clean and store PVC sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
- Keep PVC toys separate from other toys to avoid chemical reactions.
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If you are concerned about toxicity or want a non-porous toy, silicone may be a better option.
Metal
It is firm, heavy, and inflexible, ideal for vaginal dildos and anal toys, including g-spot and p-spot massagers. Metal retains temperature, so it can be cooled or warmed before play for different sensations.
Which lubricant can I use with metal sex toys?
- You can use any type of lubricant.
How do I clean and store metal sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
- Metal toys can be safely stored together.
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Steel
Steel toys are very firm and often heavier than other toys, ideal for massage or temperature play, as they can be warmed or cooled and will retain the temperature. Their smooth, non-porous surface makes them easy to clean and safe to sterilise, and they can be stored together without issue.
Which lubricant can I use with steel sex toys?
- You can use any type of lubricant.
How do I clean and store steel sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap, a sex toy cleaner, or use any sanitising method; steel toys can even go in the dishwasher.
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If you have an allergy to metals such as chromium or nickel, it may be best to avoid steel toys.
Glass - regular
It is firm, heavy, and inflexible, ideal for vaginal dildos and anal toys, including g-spot and p-spot massagers. Glass retains temperature, so it can be cooled or warmed before play for different sensations.
Which lubricant can I use with glass sex toys?
- You can use any type of lubricant.
How do I clean and store glass sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
- Glass toys can be safely stored together.
Check for cracks or chips before each use; replace the toy immediately if damaged. Glass sex toys can be recycled, making them an environmentally friendly option.
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Borosilicate Glass
It is strengthened to be extremely durable and shatter-resistant, making it safe for internal use. Borosilicate glass is firm, heavy, and inflexible, ideal for vaginal dildos and anal toys, including g-spot and p-spot massagers.
Glass retains temperature, so it can be cooled or warmed before play for different sensations.
Which lubricant can I use with borosilicate glass sex toys?
- You can use any type of lubricant.
How do I clean and store borosilicate glass sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag.
- Borosilicate glass toys can be safely stored together.
Look out for any cracks or chips each time you use the toy to ensure that it is safe for internal use. If you notice any cracks or chips in the glass, it needs to be replaced straight away.
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TPE
Because TPE can harbour bacteria, toys made from this material should be replaced every 8-10 months, or sooner if you notice tears or discolouration. Examine each toy carefully before use to ensure it is safe.
TPE is not safe to share between partners unless covered with a non-latex condom, which is also recommended for anal play.
Which lubricant can I use with TPE sex toys?
- Use plenty of water-based lubricant to prevent the material from tearing.
How do I clean and store TPE sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag in a cool, shaded place.
- Keep TPE toys separate from other toys.
If you want a longer lasting, non-porous material, silicone may be a better option.
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TPR
Because it can harbour bacteria, TPR toys should be replaced every 8-10 months, or sooner if you notice tears or discolouration. Check each toy carefully before use to ensure it is safe.
Porosity means TPR is not safe to share between partners unless covered with a non-latex condom, which is also recommended for anal play.
Which lubricant can I use with TPR sex toys?
- Use plenty of water-based lubricant to prevent tearing and maintain the material.
How do I clean and store TPR sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag in a cool, shaded place.
- Keep TPR toys separate from other toys to avoid chemical reactions.
If you want a longer lasting, non-porous material, silicone may be a better option.
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TPU
Because TPU is porous, it can harbour bacteria. Use a non-latex condom if sharing the toy or for anal play. TPU toys should be replaced every 8-10 months, or sooner if you notice discolouration or damage.
Which lubricant can I use with TPU sex toys?
- Use water-based lubricants to protect the material and maintain its lifespan.
How do I clean and store TPU sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner, dry completely, and store in a protective bag in a cool, shaded place.
- Keep TPU toys separate from other toys.
If you want a longer-lasting, non-porous material, silicone may be a better option.
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Rubber
It is usually made from natural latex but can also be synthetic, which often removes the latex content. It is commonly used for dildos and sometimes sold as ‘jelly’ or ‘gel’ toys. While it can be very soft and flexible, this is often achieved using toxic phthalates. Rubber toys are porous, which means they cannot be sterilised and may carry bacteria.
Rubber toys often have a strong smell and can cause allergic reactions if they contain latex. Some are marketed as body-safe (free from phthalates, plasticizers, or latex), but it is difficult to verify this across all products.
Which lubricant can I use with rubber sex toys?
- If you plan to use a rubber toy, we recommend using a non-latex condom with it and only using a water-based lubricant.
How do I clean and store rubber sex toys?
- Clean rubber toys with mild soap and warm water, then dry thoroughly before storing.
- Store rubber toys separately from other toys, as the chemicals in them can degrade over time and cause them to ‘melt’.
If you are concerned about porosity or toxicity, a silicone toy may be a better option.
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Polycarbonate
Polycarbonate (PC) is a thermoplastic polymer that is light and can be made transparent. Like ABS plastic, it is commonly used for the hard outer casing of vibrators, penis pumps, or as an alternative to glass. PC plastics can sometimes contain a chemical called BPA which may be harmful when used internally, though most PC toys are intended for external use only.
Which lubricant can I use with polycarbonate sex toys?
- You can use any lubricant with PC sex toys.
How do I clean and store polycarbonate sex toys?
- Clean PC toys with a sex toy cleaner and warm water, or mild antibacterial soap and warm water.
- Store your PC plastic sex toys in a storage bag to keep them protected. It is safe to store them together.
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Polypropylene
Polypropylene (PP) is a man-made thermoplastic polymer used in everyday items like food containers and clothing. Its strength makes it a common alternative to ABS or other hard plastics in sex toys, such as vibrator or stroker casings. PP also has a high heat tolerance, so it may be used in toys with heating functions. It is non-porous, phthalate-free, and BPA-free.
Which lubricant can I use with polypropylene sex toys?
- It is safe to use any lubricant with PP sex toys.
How do I clean and store polypropylene sex toys?
- Clean your PP sex toys with a sex toy cleaner and warm water or mild soap and warm water.
- Store PP sex toys in a storage bag out of direct sunlight; they can safely be stored together.
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Wood
Wood is naturally porous, but most wooden sex toys are finished with non-toxic varnishes that make them non-porous and easy to clean. Always check that a wooden toy has been properly sealed. Avoid scratching or damaging the surface, as scratches can allow bacteria to grow and make the toy unsafe. Stop using the toy immediately if you notice cracks in the coating or other signs of damage.
How do I clean and store wooden sex toys?
- Clean with mild soap and warm water or a damp cloth, taking care not to scrub.
- Store in a toy bag to maintain quality.
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Wax
Soy wax is commonly used for massage candles as it has a melting point of 46-57 degrees Celsius and contains natural oils that are perfect for massage. Paraffin wax is typically used for drip candles as its melting point can be slightly higher (47-65 degrees Celsius) and it can create a pleasurable burning sensation.
How do I clean off wax?
- Paraffin wax can be cleaned off the body with warm mineral oil, massage oil, or olive oil by holding a saturated cloth or cotton pad to the wax until it has softened, then wiping it away.
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Leather
Leather is a very common material in the world of BDSM and many bondage tools and restraint items are made from this material. It can be treated to be smooth and soft, firm or highly textured. You can use it to tease and tickle the skin or cause pain if it is spanked hard against the body.
How do I clean and store leather sex toys?
- Clean your leather with a damp cloth and allow it to air dry naturally. Store your leather out of direct sunlight.
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Suede
Suede is thinner and more delicate than most forms of leather, but it is still very durable. This makes it popular for clothing, footwear, and BDSM toys such as whips or restraints.
How do I clean and store suede sex toys?
- Suede requires more careful care than other forms of leather due to its texture and thinness. The nap can collect dust and dirt, and requires brushing with a soft leather brush. A suede eraser can be used to remove stains.
- Suede is not waterproof and should be kept dry at all times.
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Faux Leather
It is commonly made by laminating a textile base with a plastic coating such as PU or PVC. The process to manufacture faux leather is far easier than genuine leather, which makes it more affordable.
Faux leather is often (but not always!) vegan. Some faux leathers can be made using leather scraps or a base of the fibrous layer of cowhide. These forms of faux leather are often called bonded or bi-cast leather, so avoid these if you are looking for a vegan product.
How do I clean and store faux leather sex toys?
- The maintenance and cleaning of faux leather is much easier than genuine leather. Most faux leathers can simply be wiped down and do not require leather conditioner or added care. The downside, however, is that faux leather is not as durable as real leather and can be prone to cracking or tearing.
- We recommend storing faux leathers in a cool, dry place to avoid any sun damage.
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Vinyl
If a sex toy such as a dildo is labelled as ‘vinyl’ it usually means that it is made out of PVC. PVC/vinyl is porous and cannot be fully sterilised. Vinyl toys should be used with a condom if shared with partners or used anally and replaced every 8-10 months.
PVC or vinyl toys are likely to contain harmful phthalates used as softeners. Vinyl products are not toxic on their own, but the use of phthalates can make them unstable and unsafe for use. It is not known whether a condom will protect against these toxins. If you are concerned with toxicity or want a non-porous toy, silicone may be a better option.
How do I clean and store Vinyl sex toys?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap.
- Keep Vinyl toys separate from other toys to avoid chemical reactions.
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PU
PU is a low-cost, vegan option that is used for bondage tools and clothing. Many impact tools, restraints and clothing items are made of this material. It can be made to be relatively soft and into many colours and styles.
How do I clean and store PU products?
- Follow the instructions of your product for cleaning.
- It doesn’t absorb water, making it easy to clean.
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Latex
When treated and processed to be used in the production of condoms, latex can be made incredibly thin and still retain its resilient, tear-proof qualities. Latex condoms should not be used with oil-based lubricant as this can degrade the latex and increase the risk of breakages.
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Latex is also commonly used for fetish wear such as dresses, masks, or gloves. Latex creates a sleek, skin-tight look, but it can be high maintenance. Latex clothing can be difficult to put on or take off due to the rubbery texture, so talcum powder or lube is commonly used to aid in this. Latex clothing can be polished using specialised latex polish or silicone lubricant, which creates the shiny, wet look that latex is known for.
How do I clean and store Latex clothing?
- Latex clothing should be hand washed with lukewarm water and a latex-appropriate soap and air-dried.
- Store in a garment bag and hang in a dry, dark place.
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Polyester
It is a common material for clothing and bondage accessories like blindfolds as it is resistant to wrinkling or stretching. Polyester is quick-drying and can be made to feel relatively smooth and silky. However, it is not a breathable fabric.
How do I clean and store Polyester fabrics?
- Follow the instructions of your product for cleaning.
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Nylon
How do I clean and store Nylon fabrics?
- Follow the instructions of your product for cleaning.
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Hemp
When used in clothing, hemp is strong, absorbent, durable, and insulating. Hemp fabric doesn’t stretch out of shape like some other fabrics, making it perfect for heavy-duty products.
Hemp can also be used to make incredibly strong rope, making it perfect for forms of bondage – though hemp rope may not be as soft as other options. Hemp fibre is generally mould resistant and tends to be an affordable rope option.
Hemp fabrics should be washed with cold water to preserve their colour. Refer to washing instructions on the item for further information.
How do I clean and store Hemp fabrics?
- Wash with cold water to preserve its colour.
- Follow further instructions on your garment when cleaning and storing.
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Cotton
Cotton may be used in lingerie or bondage gear, especially rope. Cotton rope is softer than many other varieties while still being strong and durable. When used in lingerie or clothing cotton is soft, breathable, and fast drying.
How do I clean and store Cotton sex toys?
- Follow the instructions of your product for cleaning.
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Silk
Silk is a very strong, durable fibre. It is usually quite light and very absorbent, making it a naturally moisture-wicking fabric. It is breathable, naturally hypoallergenic, and has temperature regulating properties. It feels soft but isn’t slippery. These properties make silk a fantastic material for lingerie. Due to the long and complex process of producing silk, it is often an expensive material.
How do I clean and store Silk lingerie?
- Silk can lose its strength when wet, so needs to be gently hand washed and hung to air dry.
- Follow further instructions on your garment when cleaning and storing.
- Silk can have more static build-up than other fabrics but hanging a silk product separate from other laundry to dry can help with this.
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Spandex
Spandex is generally comfortable and moisture-wicking, making it perfect for lingerie. However, it is not a breathable material.
How do I clean and store Spandex sex toys?
- High-quality spandex items should be hand-washed in cold water and left to air dry to ensure they remain in top condition.
- Follow the washing instructions on the item.
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Satin
Satin is not to be confused with silk. Silk refers to the base fibre that the material is made from, whereas satin refers to the way those fibres are woven.
How do I clean and store Satin lingerie?
- Items should generally be hand washed, or machine washed on a delicate setting.
- Refer to washing instructions on the item for further information.
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Neoprene
How do I clean and store Neoprene sex toys?
- Neoprene items can be hand washed, but it is generally safe to machine wash on a normal cycle.
- Refer to washing instructions on the item for further information.
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Faux Fur
Faux fur is commonly used in toys such as tails or furred handcuffs. It's not very breathable, but it's usually soft and comfortable to wear.
How do I clean and store Faux Fur sex toys?
- We'd recommend handwashing your faux fur items to ensure they remain in top condition. They can also be brushed when dry to untangle any knotted fur.
- Refer to cleaning instructions on the item for further information.
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If you aren’t sure what your sex toy is made of, stick to water-based lubricant as it is safe with any sex toy material. You can check out our video for more information below.
Learn more about caring for your sex toys here
- The ultimate guide to cleaning and storing your sex toys
- Which lubricant should I use with my sex toys?
Comparison Tables
Toys for Internal Use
| Material | Porosity | Body-Safe | Lubricant Type | Sterilisable | Lifespan |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Silicone | Non-porous | Yes | Water-based, oil-based, or hybrid | Yes | 5–10 years |
| ABS | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | 5–10 years |
| PVC | Porous | No | Water-based | No | 8–10 months |
| Metal | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | Indefinite |
| Steel | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | Indefinite |
| Glass - regular | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | Indefinite |
| Borosilicate Glass | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | Indefinite |
| TPE | Porous | Limited | Water-based | No | 8–10 months |
| TPR | Porous | Limited | Water-based | No | 8–10 months |
| TPU | Porous | Limited | Water-based | No | 8-10 months |
| Rubber | Porous | Limited | Water-based | No | 8-10 months |
| Polycarbonate | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | 5–10 years |
| Polypropylene | Non-porous | Yes | Any | Yes | 5–10 years |
| Latex | Porous | Yes | Water-based, silicone-based | No | 3-5 years |
Toys for External Use
| Material | Texture | Body-Safe | Firmness | Cleaning | Lifespan |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Wood | Smooth | Limited | Rigid | Hand wash | Varies |
| Wax | Soft | Limited | Soft/Malleable | Wipe only | Short-term |
| Leather | Textured | Limited | Semi-rigid | Wipe only | Varies |
| Suede | Soft | Limited | Flexible | Brush | Varies |
| Faux Leather | Smooth | Limited | Semi-rigid | Wipe only | 1–3 years |
| Vinyl | Smooth | Limited | Semi-rigid | Wipe only | 8–10 months |
| PU | Smooth | Yes | Semi-rigid | Wipe only | 2–5 years |
| Latex | Smooth | Limited | Flexible | Hand wash | 6–12 months |
| Polyester | Smooth | Yes | Flexible | Per instructions | 1–3 years |
| Nylon | Soft | Yes | Flexible | Per instructions | 2–5 years |
| Hemp | Textured | Yes | Semi-rigid | Per instructions | 1–3 years |
| Cotton | Soft | Yes | Flexible | Per instructions | 1–3 years |
| Silk | Soft | Yes | Flexible | Per instructions | 1–3 years |
| Spandex | Smooth | Yes | Stretchy | Hand wash | 1–3 years |
| Satin | Smooth | Yes | Flexible | Hand wash/ Machine wash | 1–3 years |
| Neoprene | Smooth | Limited | Flexible | Hand wash/Machine wash | 2–5 years |
| Faux Fur | Soft | Limited | Flexible | Hand wash | 1–3 years |
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