Too often we are bombarded with information about the need for men to last longer. One of the most popular sex toys for men are cock rings, this is simply because women usually take longer to orgasm than men. This is often not due to incompetence but a reflection of the average time it takes different genders to reach orgasm!
However within a minority of heterosexual relationships the situation is reversed. She can get there, possibly multiple times but he still hasn't reached a pleasurable crescendo. Although for some men this may seem like a dream superpower, it can actually be very frustrating. Within the lives of adult sex, simply finding the time can be challenging. Making love until the break of dawn sounds great in movies and RnB songs, yet in reality, you still have to value sleep, social lives, extracurricular hobbies and however else you enjoy spending your finite time here on earth. Therefore, in some relationships, sex needs to be intimate, orgasmic, yet still reasonably efficient.
An unsatisfied sex life can erode away at a thriving relationship. This isn't only referring to the person that is struggling to reach orgasm, but of course affects the other partner who may begin to feel insecure about their sexual performance or physical attractiveness.
However there are plenty of solutions and sex toys online to help him reach the promised land quicker or even have a shared orgasm. The following list will not only improve your sex life, but the openness and communication required to use these sex toys may better your relationship in a myriad of ways.
A simple and effective way to assist sensation. Communicating that something is feeling really good will encourage him to meet the point of no return. Many women admit to exaggerating their moaning a little bit to help him. Obviously we're not looking for an oscar winning performance, although you’re acting is commendable. Overt faking is only going to harm a relationship more than enable it.
What's important to acknowledge here is that this in no way replaces the woman during sex. Men have been scared of dildos replacing them in the bedroom, but many understand now that this is not the case. Masturbators can be incorporated into sex in many ways. Instead of a handjob or blowjob during foreplay, a masturbator can be used to enhance sensations, getting him a bit closer to orgasm before beginning the main event. It's especially good to use during 69!
The Fleshlight range has many masturbators that mimic and sometimes enhance what penetration feels like. Checkout the full Fleshlight range here!
Try different positions!
If you are constantly sticking to the usual missionary and doggy style. The solution may lay in a different position. Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl optimises stimulation as it allows for the deepest penetration.
See our guides on a variety of different positions here!
If you are really committed to trying to reach climax earlier. Prostate massagers are necessary to consider. Although, many men may be hesitant to experience anal play, it's potential to encourage and greatly enhance orgasms cannot be overlooked. If this does become the solution, it's likely that your sex life will be opened up too all sorts of pleasure.
Stimulate his butt and taint
If neither of you are that comfortable with anal play, then playing with his butt is a pleasurable step back. Pulling him into you not only assists with deep penetration but can be a huge turn on. Additionally, stimulating his taint is another easy way to create extra orgasmic sensations. Like using vibrators, dildos or any sex toys, it's probably a good idea to discuss if this is okay before actually doing it.
Lingerie and other costumes are underrated pleasurable products. Having sex with someone new or a new persona can help push him over the edge. The brain is the biggest sex organ and mental stimulation is the quickest way to reach orgasm. This means discussing fantasies and trying to create situations that mimic their desires. Mastery of emotional and intellectual concepts within sex can make for an extremely intimate and pleasurable sex.
Important things to remember
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