Sex toys are the perfect addition to your sex life if you're looking to heat things up in the sheets or try out new sensations in a fun and safe way. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or anything in between, toys can help emphasise your pleasure and open the door to a whole new world of sexual possibilities.
While there are countless benefits of vibrators and dildos (seriously, way too many to name), there are a few things that some people might worry about. Will sex toys ruin your relationship? Will you become so reliant on your favourite clitoral vibrator or masturbator that the real deal can no longer match up?
The short answer is no, sex toys won't ruin your relationship. They can actually help improve your sex life! But if you're still worried, here are some tips and tricks for introducing toys into the relationship without compromising anything!
It's always a good idea to talk about things with your partner. Whether you're wanting to use sex toys strictly on yourself, or bring them into the bedroom to use together, talking it out should definitely be your first step. And while it's totally okay to want to use some anal toys by yourself, it doesn't hurt to give your partner a heads up!
Talking about sex toys will help open the conversation about what you both enjoy in the bedroom. Plus, if you're keen to just use them on yourself for a bit of self-lovin', it's the perfect time to reassure your partner than you're not trying to replace them. It might sound silly to be jealous of a sex toy - but, there's a high chance your partner might feel as though they aren't good enough if you bring home something that resembles their private bits, only bigger and bright pink. That's why communication is key to make sure they know they are still pretty great, you're just looking to switch things up a little!
If you're looking for a way to increase your intimacy, then using toys together in the bedroom opens up new sexual experiences that can actually bring you closer together, strengthening your relationship and communication.
There are actually hundreds of sex toys out there that are designed to be used by couples - no matter your sexual orientation or gender identity!
Cock rings are perfect for prolonging erections and helping you last longer during sex. This one has a vibrator at the top that can be placed upright or upside down to stimulate the clitoris, balls, or anus!
Something like the Satisfyer Partner Multifun is also a great option. This versatile couple's toy can be used in so many different ways, allowing you to experiment and discover what gets you going!
There are also loads of other ways you can implement sex toys into your relationship as well! Anal toys, lingerie and bondage products can also spice things up and help you live out your sexual fantasies.
If you're worried about your new vibrator stealing the show and your partner being unable to compete, then take a step back and spend more time with your partner, and less time with your shiny new toy. It can be easy to reach for convenience and what you know best, and that's okay every now and then, but don't let it interfere with your relationship. Put the vibe down for a moment and go spend some one-on-one time with your partner instead.
Or, better yet, show your partner how you like to use it or masturbate in front of them! This can be a very erotic experience for both of you, and letting them use a toy on you can also help them feel more included in your pleasure.
Sex toys can't tell you how much they love you when you're snuggled up in bed (no matter how much you might tell them that). There are so many things in a relationship that a dildo simply can't provide!
Make sure you take the time to compliment each other and tell each other what you did and didn't enjoy after sex, to make way for an open narrative. This is important to understand how your partner is feeling about sex toys being added into the equation, and to make sure you're both enjoying yourselves at all times!
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