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What dildo or sex toy is suitable for a virgin?

By Emily 4 years ago. Posted in Sex Tips
What dildo or sex toy is suitable for a virgin?

First time using a dildo? No worries! Whether or not you've had sex doesn't really impact what sex toys will work for you. Everybody is different and everybody likes different things, but this guide will help you to find the best dildos or sex toys to use if you're a virgin (first-timer for sex toys or having sex in general).

*Editor's note: This article was updated on 3 September 2021. *

What to look for in your first sex toy

If you have a vagina you are spoilt for choice when it comes to buying sex toys made just for you. In fact, Adulttoymegastore socks more than 15,000 different types of sex toys! While that makes for a lot of choice, often for sex toy newbies it can be difficult to know where to start...

When you're deciding what to buy - think about what you like. Do you like something inside you? Or do you climax best with clitorial stimulation? If you don't know - that's OK! Buy a few entry level vibes to see what works best for you.

Haven't had sex or inserted anything internally before? Let's start slow. We'd recommend buying a slim dildo or vibrator for internal use that's no longer than 6 inches of insertible length.

We'd also recommend starting out with a clitoral vibrator or suction toy to start off with clitoral stimulation before using sex toys designed for penetration, like a dildo.

Why? Because only 20% of vulva owners orgasm from penetration alone. That means clitoral stimulation is the pleasurable ingredient for 80% of people with vulvas!

Not sure where to start? Here is a breakdown of sex toys suitable for virgins (first-timers):

Dildos

Colours Pride Edition Dildo  5 InchColours Pride Edition Dildo - 5 Inch$42.95Shop NowColours Pleasure Suction Cup Dildo with BallsColours Pleasure Suction Cup Dildo With Balls$35.95Shop Now Dildos are penetrative sex toys that don't vibrate. They come in a variety of shapes, sizes and materials, but they commonly resemble a penis, although there are plenty of non-realistic dildos available. Choose the size and the design that works for you. Suction cup dildos have a suction cup base that you can attach to almost any flat surface to use the dildo hands-free, while choosing a dildo without a suction base will require you to penetrate yourselve with the dildo.

A perfect beginner's dildo size is 6 inches in length or less, and up to 4.5 inches in girth.

The best materials for dildos are 100% silicone, stainless steel or glass. Check out Adulttoymegastore's range of dildo sex toys here. and to find out more, read our guide on the different types of dildos and watch the video below where sex educator Emma Hewitt tells you everything you need to know about choosing your first dildo.

Best vibrators for first-timers

If you want a sex toy that vibrates and can stimulate the clitoris, here are our recommendations if you're new to sex toys.

Bullet vibrators

My Secret Lipstick SingleMy Secret Lipstick Single$17.95Shop NowPleasure Bullet VibePleasure Bullet Vibe$18.95Shop Now A vibrator is a great first toy. You can start really small by getting a bullet vibrator. Bullets are designed for massaging the clitoris and providing a small amount of sensation. If they have a string they can be inserted. Bullet vibrators are incredibsly discreet in both look and sound, making them the perfect option for a beginner experimenting with vibrators.

Don’t let their size fool you! Bullet vibrators provide strong pin point stimulation through their vibration and can last in the long term with travel friendly features such as USB recharging.

Internal vibrators

Satisfyer Pro Plus GSpotSatisfyer Pro Plus G-spot$89.95Shop NowNeon Luv Touch WaveNeon Luv Touch Wave$39.95Shop Now Next up are vibrators designed to be used internally, although you can also use them to stimulate the clitoris externally. There are many different types - some are curved to stimulate the G-spot, and rabbit vibrators are designed to stimulate the clitoris at the same time!

With a vast array of shapes, sizes, functions and designs it can often be overwhelming having to choose which vibrator is the best fit for you, which is why we are here to help lay it all out for you.

How you use your vibrator will depend on which type you go for and what feels best for you. If you aren't sure already, explore with your hands before you purchase a vibrator as it's good to know what tickles your fancy. Whether you are after internal stimulation, external stimulation, or both, you want to move the vibrator around that desired area to get a feel for the different sensations.

Try holding it still, moving it sideways, moving it in and out and applying different amounts of pressure. It is also a good idea to experiment with the different speeds and vibration settings as they can change the whole experience!

Here's a beginner guide to using a vibrator.

Clitoral Stimulators

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2$74.95Shop NowSatisfyer Pro Penguin Next GenerationSatisfyer Pro Penguin Next Generation$77.95Shop Now Clitoral stimulators are a great first vibe. They focus on stimulating the clitoris for an intense orgasm. These toys take you to climax with zero penetration needed. Most are able to do this because they send out pulsating pleasure waves to the clitoris, the intensity and level of these waves can be dictated by your personal preference so it’s always comfortable and pleasurable. You simply place them onto your clitoris and you're on your way!

For recommendations, check out our list of the best suction vibrators for incredible clitoral stimulation.

Wand vibrators

BodyWand Rechargeable MassagerBodywand Rechargeable Massager$129.95Shop NowDoxy Wand MassagerDoxy Wand Massager$179.95Shop NowShare Satisfaction Mini WandShare Satisfaction Mini Wand $45.95Shop Now A wand vibrator is a unique type of vibrator that's mainly used for stimulating the clitoris to bring vulva owners to orgasm. There are many kinds of wands available - wireless, electric (plugs into the wall), waterproof and wands with attachments. Wands are designed for external use on your clitoris so they're really easy to use and are great to use solo of with a partner. See a guide to wand vibrators here and watch the video below to learn all about wand vibrators from a sex educator.

Always use lubricant

Sex toys, like dildos and vibrators, should always be used with personal lubricant. Even if there is enough natural lubrication, more is always better. Find out everything you need to know about lubricant and shop Adulttoymegastore's range here.

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Adulttoymegastore is an online retailer of sex toys distributing across New Zealand, Australia and the USA. ATMS was opened in 2009 and is still proudly New Zealand owned and operated, with over 8,000 products from more than 45 brands to choose from! We take great provide in providing the best products to thousands of happy customers, and have many benefits such as a loyalty programme, free samples with every order, and personalised notes.

Adulttoymegastore has a huge range of sex toys including vibrators, dildos and cock rings for every occasion! With fast, 100% discreet shipping, and price guarantee, ATMS has everything you need to make good sex, great!

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Editor’s note:

This article was originally published on 19 November 2019 and was updated on 3 September 2021 for relevance and comprehensiveness. The information in this article has been fact checked and reviewed for accuracy by Adulttoymegastore’s team of content specialists and sexual wellness experts, including Sex Educator Emma Hewitt.

Content disclaimer:

Adulttoymegastore does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment for illness. Any information published on this website, either by Adulttoymegastore or its authors, is not intended to be a substitute for medical advice, and you should not take any action before consulting with a medical professional.

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