Whether you enjoy giving blowjobs or not, everyone can agree that sometimes it's not the number one thing at the top of your to-do list. Reality is, giving a blowjob can be a relatively daunting process: being in extreme proximity to a penis, trying to avoid getting teeth involved, wondering whether it feels okay.
Going down isn't all sunshine and rainbows. Well, maybe it is for your man, but if he's half-decent then he'll want you to be enjoying yourself too!
If you're lacking in the confidence department, you'll likely find it hard to enjoy giving head without having a million worries running through your mind. Firstly, help yourself feel confident. Wear something that makes you feel sexy! Secondly, it's important to remember that it's totally okay to ask your man what he likes! Communication is essential to sexual pleasure. If you're worried he's not enjoying himself, ask him what he wants and let him guide you.
There are very few men who don't enjoy oral, so all in all, the chances are he's totally into it!
Your technique might not be the best in the world. It's fine, we can't all be perfect! But it's easy enough to incorporate a few extra tricks that will blow his mind - and make the process a little more exciting for you!
Okay, we'll admit it: sometimes blowjobs can get a little boring. Sure, sometimes the satisfaction of knowing that your man is enjoying himself is enough, but other times you're just waiting for it to be over.
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If you're constantly giving and are never on the receiving end of oral, there's no doubt you'll have negative associations towards blowjobs and won't enjoy them.
If you're in a long-term relationship, generally the playing fields evens out over time, but if your partner never returns the favour then it's time to change that! Ask him to go down on you first, or let the excitement of knowing he'll go down on you after ramp up the heat.
Some people are blessed with no gag reflex, and others aren't so lucky. If you fall under the latter category, you're not alone and there's ways to help combat it!
Relaxing your mouth and lips helps to open your throat more, so try not to focus so much on keeping your lips tight. If your mouth falls open a bit, it will help to open up your throat and allow for deeper penetration.
You can also try the toothbrush trick. Using your toothbrush, locate where you gag reflex begins, and brush this spot for a few seconds. Repeat the process every night, slowly moving the toothbrush further back, and you should find that your gag reflex is significantly reduced!
Intimate sexual activities, whether you're giving or receiving, should always be fun and enjoyable for both parties! Communicating effectively is the key to ensuring you're both satisfied.
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