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The Best Dildos For Beginners

By Olivia Hartt one year ago. Posted in Sex Toy Guides
The Best Dildos For Beginners (Small and User-Friendly)

Dildos are perfect for beginners, here's how to choose one!

No sex toy collection is complete without a dildo! But if you've never bought, or used, a dildo before, it can be a tad tricky to choose one. To make choosing a dildo easier, here's a list of the best dildos for beginners and our best tips for choosing a beginner dildo. silicone dildos for beginners You might be completely new to this all and wondering what a dildo even is, if so, read these articles about dildos:

Tips for choosing a beginner dildo

Size matters

Like everything when it comes to sex toys, we recommend starting small – 6-7 inches insertable length max. Don't go crazy and buy a 12 inch dildo if you've never used one before! Even though you’re starting smaller, that doesn’t mean these dildos aren't going to provide the same pleasure as the bigger sizes. Consider the girth of the dildo as well. 5 inches in diameter/girth is plenty. Use lubricant with your Dildo

Using lubricant with your dildo is a must! Water-based lubricant is always the go-to and safest option as it is suited for use with all dildos and sex toys, but if you're wanting to try something different always make sure the lubricant is compatible with your toy. dildos for beginners

Clean and store your dildo correctly

Always remember to clean your dildo after each sexual activity, not only for hygiene reasons but to ensure your toy lasts as long as possible. Then, once dry, store your dildo in a cloth bag or sex toy storage box to protect it from dust and bacteria.


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Here are the best dildos for beginners

Whether you want a dildo for solo masturbation or to use with a partner, adding a dildo to your collection will bring new sensations to your sex life. Here are the best types of dildos for beginners. realistic dildos for beginners

Classic Dildos for Beginners

To begin with, first on our list of best dildos for beginners is the Classic Dildo. Starting with the simplest dildo of the lot, this is perfect for those who are unsure and don't want all the extras. With no balls, suction cup or popping realistic veins you're just getting a good old-fashioned classic dildo that isn't intimidating to look at.

Classic dildos are great for women with smaller hands, as they are easier to hold without things getting in their way and allowing for easier control. Dildo beginners should choose a dildo that's 6 inches or smaller in insertable length.

Glass Dildos for Beginners

The most elegant and classy dildos are generally made from glass. Glass dildos are perfect for beginners and also gives the option to explore new sensations through temperature play once you're comfortable.

The body-safe and super strong glass allows for experimentation of temperature play, by heating or cooling with water prior to masturbation or sex. Glass feels amazing against the skin and when cared for properly lasts a lifetime. You can use any type of lubricant with glass dildos.

The Icicles and Glas sex toy brands have an extensive and amazing range of glass toys. Though these products are a little bit longer in length than the classics, but you can use as much of the dildo as you deem comfortable, by only inserting the amount you desire.

Realistic Dildos for Beginners

Are you looking for a sexual partner that is there for you 24/7 to give you pleasure whenever you want? Realistic dildos are the answer.

Made to look and feel like a man's penis to re-create real sexual intercourse, realistic dildos offer the most 'real' experience. The life-like design and texture, often detailed with veins and shaped a certain way, can help many beginners feel at ease using a dildo.

USA sex toy companies Pipedream and Doc Johnson make the most popular perfect life-like dildos.

Suction Cup Dildos for Beginners

Suction Cup Dildos are exactly what they seem, a dildo with a suction cup on the end. Stick it to the wall, the side of the bath, the headboard or floor - pretty much any smooth surface will allow for you to free your hands for other purposes and lets you ride your dildo for hands-free pleasure.

Dildos with Balls for Beginners

Dildos with balls aren’t only made to look like the real deal, they also add exterior stimulation enabling you to get extra sensation while the dildo is being used to penetrate. You can also use the testicles to have better grip and control.

Both dildos are under 6inch, starting small with size like we have recommended but having the external stimulation for additional pleasure to take your experience with dildos up a notch. These two are even both realistic!

High-End Dildos for Beginners

For those who don't mind spending a little bit more to have something a little luxurious, here are two of our favourite luxury dildos that are perfect for beginners.

The Cush 02 Twilight Dildo by Tantus is a realistic dildo with curves designed to help stimulate the G-spot and give the pleasure a beginner needs to experience in order to understand how great dildos really are! Made from 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone you can rest assured this high-end product is made for your body. It's also rather beautiful to look at!

The D.1 velvet touch silicone dildo by Laid has a unique asymmetric shape to allow for smooth manoeuvring and stimulation. Visually appealing which is always important to us ladies, the colour is great for couples as it's not gender specific. The Laid D.1 is also 100% waterproof, meaning you can take it anywhere you want. It's also a beauty.

Are you ready to buy a dildo?

Check out our whole range of Dildos to find the perfect dildo for you!


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